Hallie was able to go to a BYU soccer with half of her team tonight! They stopped off at Costco and had pizza (which Hallie does not like but she pretended to eat. Haha!), went to the game and stayed after for autographs. She didn't get home until after 11 PM. I didn't hear from the other mom's that took her until 1030 PM so my mommy heart was starting to worry but everything was just fine. She had a blast! She got her newly bought sweatshirt for school signed by one of the players. I couldn't be mad at her because she was so excited she got it autographed. So grateful she has built such great friendships with kids she never would have had it not been for soccer.
The other day I saw this posted online that describes perfectly how I feel about keeping our kids so busy in sports (of course only if they also want to be busy in sports). "A friend asked me, "Why spend so much money and time on your child to train for soccer or any other sport?" I will answer you. I don't pay because my daughter/son trains and plays. Do you know why I'm paying? I pay for my child to learn how to be disciplined. I pay for my child to learn to take care of his body and mind. I pay for my child to learn to work with others and be a good teammate. I pay for my child to learn how to deal with disappointment when he doesn't get what he expected, but they know they have to work harder. I pay for my child to learn to reach their goals. I pay for my child to understand that it takes hours and hours of hard work and training to get a championship, and that success doesn't happen overnight. I pay for the opportunity my child will have to make lifelong friendships. I pay for my child to be on the field and not in front of the TV. I pay for those times when my child gets so tired they just want to lay down and doesn't think or have time to be lazy or into bad things. I pay for all the teachings that this beautiful sport gives them: responsibility, humility, dedication, friendship, coexistence, etc, etc. I could go on and on but to make it short; I don't pay for the internship. I pay for the opportunities the sport has to offer my child to develop attributes and skills that will be useful for their entire lives."
Russ and I couldn't agree more with this post. We both feel that sports has taught us more about life and how to handle it then it has about the actual sport we were playing. This. This is why we are okay spending our time and money on the field with our kids.




